Getting started
If possible, start the decluttering process as soon as you begin thinking about transitioning to a retirement community. Try going room-by-room or going through your possessions in a smaller, more manageable manner to avoid burnout or getting overwhelmed.
Consider making it a part of your daily routine to go through a specific room or area of a room, or set aside a specific time each day or week.
Take inventory, make lists, label, create a timeline – anything that will help you stay on track. Making piles can help you stay organized and feel more in-control.
Below are a few questions to consider that should help you decide which pile an item belongs in:
- Have you used the object regularly?
- Will you have enough space for the object in your new residence?
- Are there multiples of the same item or similar items?
- Will someone else be able to use the item?
- Does the item have significant financial value?
The legacy lives on
Aside from the daunting physical toll, downsizing can also have an emotional impact. The prospect of getting rid of items that have history or that you have emotional ties with can be difficult, but it is best to focus on what you would like your new life to be like.
- Giving sentimental objects away to family members is always an option.
- Consider donating the goods so that they can have new meaning to another family.
- Consign any antiques, jewelry or other valuables to earn some extra income.
Ask for Help
Allow your family to help with this process and take this opportunity to travel down memory lane. This process will also help to reduce the future burden on your family.
- Use this time to reminisce and reconnect.
- Evaluate what your children/grandchildren/other family members would like to take for themselves. If you don’t think Great Aunt Marge’s china collection has a place in your new home, a family member just might want to hold onto the family heirloom instead.
- If help is limited, professional movers are also an option.
Viewing downsizing and decluttering in a positive light will help mentally as well. Looking at your new life as a simpler existence and focusing on experiences versus things is a wonderful way to stay connected with family and build new relationships within your new community. Decluttering can mean not only physically removing objects from your life, but clearing space in your mind, too.
No matter the circumstance, downsizing and starting a life in a new community can come with challenges and emotions. You want to make sure your new residence feels like home, so make sure the items you choose to take with you convey that feeling. Your new adventure doesn’t have to be stressful, sad or scary. Stay positive and get excited about a simpler, less-cluttered life!